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I asked the guys on our team, Jon and Bryan, if they would be willing to come to a young women’s meeting and answer their questions.  I had no idea what to expect for the questions these girls would pose when I handed out index cards a week ago for the girls to write their questions.  So here they are, both hilarious and sobering: what Swazi girls are asking of the male race.

·         Why most of the times it’s you guys who approach to the girls and when girls approach it’s like embarrassing?

·         If
a girl is having some feelings for a guy and then try to show the guy
in some ways, what do the guy usually thinks of that girl?

·         What do guys really mean when they tell a girl “I love you”, yet they were not hating me even before?

·         My friend who is a boy and not in love with him is it possible to call him my boyfriend or it’s weird?

·         What attracts boys in sexy girls?

·         How do we see that a boy loves us?

·         What is the important part in a girl boys like?

·         Is it possible for a girl to tell a boy that she loves him?

·         Which goals does a man want to achieve in life?

·         How can you tell that I’m sexy?

·         Can a man be sexy? How can I see?

·         What makes a man to have two wives?

·         List two things that can show me you love me.

·         Who teach males how to propose?

·         Why do the guy like to tell girls that they love them?

·         What makes you to say nasty things when girls are wearing their short skirts?

·         What makes boys fight for girl?

·         Do you have a girlfriend? (this was by far the most popular question)

·         If the boys say “I love you” what do you say?

·         Do you have a child? (ha)

·         What can you do with you girlfriend?

·         Why do you loves girls?

·         Why are you guy like to do some thing for girls like to buy for girls?

·         Why boys like to see the body of girls?

·         Why boys like to touch you when there are walking with girls?

·         Why do you make the girls pregnant because for you didn’t marry them?

·         What happened if the boy sitting private place with the girlfriend?

·         Why the boys not wanting the girlfriend talking with other boys?

·         Why most of the boys getting lust for girls?

·         Why do boys like to have girlfriends?

·         What do you benefit from having a girlfriend?

·         How long does it takes you to know a girl and how long do you date before marrying?

·         What is it that you do not like about girls?

·         What is it that you like?

·         When did you started dating? What is the normal age of dating?

·         What makes you to not concentrate on girls?

·         What is helping you to be what you are today?

·         Sometimes you are tempted physically, what helps you to overcome the situation?

·         What kind of woman would you like to marry? What physical qualities are you looking for?

·         Can you marry someone who is not a Christian? If she loves you and is promising to change can you accept that? If not, why?

 
And here is what I’m asking of you: write answers to these questions as blog comments as you would tell these precious girls.  We need more input and I don’t want to sell these girls short in answering their questions.  Please don’t take these questions at face value, but understand these girls’ hearts in asking them.  I don’t really know how to emphasize this enough, but these girls, out of all the girls in the world, are deprived of real men in their lives – both older and younger, and I don’t want them to settle for a sub-standard version of masculinity.  This is not only because I want them to expect and hope for more in their future husbands than affection, sex appeal, and provision.  This is also because I want these girls to inspire the men in their lives to be true men of God, and affirm those characteristics in them that are.  These guys really have so much potential.  It just needs to be tapped into.  And I know that these girls have so much power to inspire that potential into reality.